I got the call at 1 o'clock in the afternoon, telling me that he is late from his hair appointment. My god I'm in so much trouble now!!!!
My car was written off a few days ago so we are sharing his car for a few days. I took the car this morning and forgot about Pete's hair appointment. Pete is my fiancé, we just celebrated our 3rd anniversary.
I drove home like a lunatic, and called on the way to apologise, knowing that there is no point really. Still I aplologised profusely. He is very angry now, and will will give me the silent treatment for a day, two maybe three - no way to tell how long.
I got home, but it was too late for Pete to get his hair done. So that's me for a few days.
I'm trying to tell myself that it's okay, and it will pass, and I'm trying not to make a big deal of it. Following the advice on the websites that offer help in dealing with the silent treatment. So I'm just going on with my day, I'm not nagging, I'm making eye contact, smile, offered to make tea earlier, and in general just trying to get on with the day without rocking the boat. But I'm actually sick to my stomach, and scared a bit. How long will it last this time? Why does this feel so terrible? Is this actually abuse?
Can somebody help me?
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